Many of us have had our share of pity parties to exorcise an emotional vampire or seven. They're all over you like a rash at the beginning and then, slowly slowly, you get stabbed through the heart with a red sharpie. The occasional risk of a life well lived... To hell with The Begrudgers! There is another Way. If you can create your own voice (Toastmasters can help with that one), and dinkum freedom of speech, a kaleidoscope of pastels appear. A lot of people I know, me incl